Winner or Loser
本帖最后由 168canada 于 2013-2-26 22:47 编辑About three weeks ago, I was playing badminton with three people at the badminton club in a community in London. At one point, we were having an issue regarding whether the birdie that I had just served was in or out. From my standpoint of view, the birdie was in, so I insisted and I said several times confidently. However, when all the other players gave in, I somehow became alert of the possibility that the birdie was out, and the other players just wanted to be polite to me.
Upon reflection, I feel guilty of how I did, and appreciative of what the other players did in the incident. I might well have failed to see what had actually happened from my limited perspective when I felt sure of what I saw with my own eyes. While I score a point in the game, my opponent players score much higher in their integrity. Besides, there are many things more important and precious than a winning a point or a game. 本帖最后由 168canada 于 2013-2-26 22:36 编辑
I really do not care I am a winner or not, but I really care all of our health, feelings and happiness; at least, there is no way for me to hurt any of you in any way. Didnt really look into it but it is good to express that you are hurt.
I hope things get solved. cheers. 本帖最后由 168canada 于 2013-2-27 09:52 编辑
回复 3# kiar
Thanks for your kindness and feedback!
I did not get hurt. I just want to learn and grow from my experience, and I would like to share my experience with you all.
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